Opening & Check In's

  • Check-Ins: How did you do this week?
  • 1) What is the lowest you got on the Faster Scale this week.
  • 2) Where are you on your commitment to change? (The final question from previous week)
  • 3) Have you lied to anyone this week, directly or indirectly?
  • 4) What have you done to improve your relationship with your, Wife, Family member or Friend?
  • 5) What are you going to intentionally do this week for your commitment to change. (follow up will be the following week, see question 2)
  • Sword Drill:

“I call heaven and earth to witness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, the blessing and the curse. So choose life in order that you may live, you and your descendants, by loving the Lord your God, by obeying His voice, and by holding fast to Him; for this is your life and the length of your days, that you may live in the land which the Lord swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, to give them.” (Deuteronomy 30: 19-20, NASB)

  • Accountability Discussion
  • FASTER Scale  Found: Members FAQ
  • Personal Stories (2-3)

Discussion Questions:

Discussion Questions for WTWIYM Week 1:

  • What’s your favorite karate movie? (Or, if karate isn’t your thing, what’s your favorite sports movie?)
  • What was your first thought after hearing this week’s episode?
  • Read Hebrews 4:12. Would you say you treat Scripture like it’s living and active or just like words on a page? What makes you say that?
  • Do you ever find yourself acting irrationally based on a lie you believe about yourself? If so, how?
  • Pastor Craig shared about a lie he believed that was rooted in a childhood memory. What is a lie you believe or an unhelpful mindset you have based on past experience? What can you do to confront and correct the lie?
  • The lies we believe about ourselves are often rooted in childhood experiences. Have you experienced this in your own life? How has it affected you?
  • Have you meditated on God’s truth before? What was that experience like?
  • What is the dominant stronghold in your life?
  • What are some truths from God’s Word that you can write, meditate on, and confess to combat it?
  • What truth demolishes that stronghold? How can you replace that negative statement with truth from Scripture?

Sexual Integrity 101 Session 6 Video

Play the Sexual Integrity 101 Session 6 Video with Brief discussion.  Will discuss next week.

Homework

  • Discussion Questions on Sexual Integrity 101 Session 6
  • Sword Drill for the week:
    • Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, NASB)

Communication:

Send out this email, after the first meeting:

(simply copy & paste into your email on Planning Center)

Hey Guys,

Just a quick follow up on what you are to be doing this week for homework:

  • You should be doing your Daily Check In’s
  • You should be doing your 30 Minute Shut-downs
  • You should be saying out loud your Positive Confessions
  • Answer all the questions in the Sexual Integrity 101 workbook for Session 6
  • Do your sword drill
  • Call 3 members of the group

You are off to a great start!  I hope you are digging in and taking the time to completely engage in your restoration from your unwanted addiction.

Remember, if you need help at any time, the Restored Warriors Relapse Prevention Line is available 24 hours a day.  888-697-9411

Reach out if you need anything!  Have a great week!

Text on day 2 or 3

(simply copy and paste into the group text in the RW App)

So what’s going on guys?  How is your week going?  Everyone doing the Check In’s, Shut Downs & Positive Confessions?  Tell us what you are finding in doing them?

Text on day 4

(simply copy and paste into the group text in the RW App)

By now, you should have be well on your way to being finished with your discussion questions.  What are some things you have discovered in your homework?

Text on day 6

(simply copy and paste into the group text in the RW App)

Looking forward to seeing everyone tomorrow!  Please plan to be on time as we have a lot to cover.  How’s your story coming along?