Opening & Check In's
VERY IMPORTANT TO MAKE SURE WORKBOOK FOR SEXUAL INTEGRITY 101 IS ORDERED THIS WEEK!!!
- Check-Ins (FASTER Scale)
- 1) What is the lowest you got on the Faster Scale this week.
- 2) Where are you on your commitment to change? (The final question from previous week)
- 3) Have you lied to anyone this week, directly or indirectly?
- 4) What have you done to improve your relationship with your, Wife, Family member or Friend?
- 5) What are you going to intentionally do this week for your commitment to change. (follow up will be the following week, see question 2)
- Sword Drill:
Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, NASB)
- Review Homework – See Discisson Questions Below
- Double Bind Found: Members FAQ
- Commitment to Change – Found Members FAQ
- Recovery Action Plan – Found Members FAQ
- Personal Stories (4)
Discussion Questions:
Discussion Questions from WTWIYM Week 2:
- What’s your favorite karate movie? (Or, if karate isn’t your thing, what’s your favorite sports movie?)
- What was your first thought after hearing this week’s episode?
- Read Hebrews 4:12. Would you say you treat Scripture like it’s living and active or just like words on a page? What makes you say that?
- Do you ever find yourself acting irrationally based on a lie you believe about yourself? If so, how?
- Pastor Craig shared about a lie he believed that was rooted in a childhood memory. What is a lie you believe or an unhelpful mindset you have based on past experience? What can you do to confront and correct the lie?
- The lies we believe about ourselves are often rooted in childhood experiences. Have you experienced this in your own life? How has it affected you?
- Have you meditated on God’s truth before? What was that experience like?
- What is the dominant stronghold in your life?
- What are some truths from God’s Word that you can write, meditate on, and confess to combat it?
- What truth demolishes that stronghold? How can you replace that negative statement with truth from Scripture?
Homework:
Homework:
- Week 3: Winning The War In Your Mind @ RW University
- Sword Drill for week:
- Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death. (James 1:13-15, NASB)
Communication:
Send out this email, after the todays meeting:
(simply copy & paste into your email on Planning Center)
Hey Guys,
It was so great to hang out with you today. Thanks for the great conversations!
This week… I want to encourage you to stay engaged in your recovery. Dig deep into your healing. Make your phone calls, do your check in’s and everything else that you know, you should be doing. Here is your homework reminder:
- Review and complete your Double Bind This is found at: Members FAQ
- Review and complete your Commitment to Change – This is found at Members FAQ
- Review and complete your Recovery Action Plan – This is found at Members FAQ
- Week 3: Winning The War In Your Mind @ RW University
- Sword Drill for week:
- Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone. But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death. (James 1:13-15, NASB)
You are only a couple of weeks away from Sexual Integrity 101. This is an amazing program that you are going to love. If you have not ordered your workbooks yet, please do so within the next 2 weeks. They are taking a couple weeks to arrive, due to shipping issues. Here is the link:
Remember, if you need anything, anytime, you can always reach out to us! 888-697-9411
IF!!!! You have not by now downloaded the Restored Warriors App, Please do so NOW!! This is the way we will be communicating in the future. Here is the link to the app.
Have a great week, reach out if you need, keep up the great progress in your healing and recovery!!
Love you guys!
Text on day 2 or 3
(simply copy and paste into the group text in the RW App)
So, how is everyone doing today? Are you enjoying Winning The War In Your Mind? What are you learning?
Text on day 4 or 5
(simply copy and paste into the group text in the RW App)
How is everyone doing on getting their Check In’s, Shut Downs & Positive Confessions done? Any questions or problems?
Text or Email on day 6
(simply copy and paste into the group text in the RW App)
Looking forward to seeing everyone tomorrow! We’ll have a lot to cover again.
This next week, let’s get ready to start sharing personal stories. This is just a general background of your history and sexual brokenness. What you’ve been through and where you’re coming from. The purpose of this is to get this stuff initially off your chest and initially establish a starting point of openness and vulnerability.
Lastly, be ready to talk about you’re answers to the discussion questions from Winning the War in Your Mind. You can find that on the RW University.